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Becoming · Six months with Hilary

You're one step from Becoming.

Six months of weekly coaching with Hilary, the complete Becoming curriculum and a circle of mothers doing this work beside you. Your six months begin the day you join.

Weekly coaching8 modulesFewer than 12 women per call
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Becoming

$5,500or 8 monthly payments of $725
  • ✓The Golden Thread Teachings8 modules and 50+ lessons, yours for life
  • ✓Weekly live coaching with HilarySmall groups of fewer than 12 women, rotating Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday
  • ✓Communication Reviews on every callBring your texts, emails and letters and review them with Hilary live
  • ✓Every call recorded and available the same daySend your question ahead if you can't join live
  • ✓The Becoming communityMothers doing this work beside you

Want Hilary's eyes on your own relationship? Becoming VIP adds your Relationship Blueprint™ and three private calls with Hilary.

What happens after you join

You've already done the brave part.

1

Right away

Your welcome arrives, with your login to all eight modules and the Becoming calendar.

2

In your first weeks

You join your first live coaching call and bring whatever is on your heart. You can be coached personally on every call.

3

Every week for six months

Hilary coaches you through your real relationship, and gets to know it along the way.

Seven years of silence

Then one day, they met for lunch.

Carolyn hadn't seen her eldest daughter in seven years. Inside Becoming, she began to see how her own story had shaped the way she mothered, not with bad intentions, but with blind spots. She wrote a letter that named the impact instead of explaining it, and she didn't ask for a response.

She stayed steady, gave space and trusted the timing. Then one day, they met for lunch. They hugged, and they talked for over an hour and a half.

Today they are rebuilding. Not perfectly. Consciously.

Watch Carolyn's storyWatch Carolyn's story

“Yesterday, after seven long years, I met my eldest daughter for lunch. We smiled at each other and hugged.”

Carolyn's message to Hilary, shared with permission
Carolyn's message to Hilary after meeting her daughter for lunch
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Karen · Becoming member
Hilary Mae

Hilary Mae, LPC

17 years as a licensed professional counselor, the last six devoted only to mothers and daughters. 12,000+ students. Taught the first-ever course on the mother-daughter relationship at the Psychotherapy Networker Symposium.

Becoming is a six-month commitment. All sales are final, whether you pay in full or choose the payment plan.

Questions before you join? Write to Hilary at hello@hilarymae.com

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