Learn how to understand what your daughter has been asking for and become more able to meet her differently so you can lead your side of the relationship with greater steadiness, understanding and emotional safety.
Fall Live Cohort begins September 21
Your daughter may have already told you what she needs.
More space. Less advice. More listening. Less explaining.
And you may genuinely understand what she's asking for.
So why is it still so difficult to do something different when the moment actually comes?
That's the question underneath Becoming Foundations.
Because knowing what your daughter needs and knowing how to meet her there when the relationship feels uncertainare two very different things.
Maybe she keeps canceling plans and you're not sure whether to ask again or wait for her.
Maybe she gets frustrated with the way you interact with your grandchildren, and you find yourself defending something you never intended to cause harm.
Maybe she's sharing less, initiating less, or asking for more space — and you can feel yourself trying harder to keep the relationship close.
Or maybe the distance has grown to the point where you're barely speaking at all.
Your daughter may already be giving you information about what she needs. Becoming Foundations is where you learn what to do with it.
For ten days, I'll help you understand what's happening underneath these moments, recognize what gets in the way of meeting your daughter differently, and learn how to lead from your side of the relationship in a way that creates more emotional safety between you.
Not by finding the perfect words.
Not by convincing your daughter to change.
And not by trying even harder.
By becoming more able to hear what she's communicating and respond differently when it matters.
And you won't be doing this alone.
For ten days, you'll move through the work alongside me and a group of women who understand what it feels like to love their daughters deeply and still not know how to change what is happening between them.
You'll go through the material each day, then bring your real relationship into our live work together.
Here is what you receive:
Ten Daily Lessons - A new lesson is added to your library each day for ten days, beginning September 21. Each lesson takes about 30 minutes, and you can listen before or after work, on your commute, or catch up over the weekend. You do not have to finish everything within the ten days, and you'll have lifetime access to all of the material.
Live Coaching Session 1 - Wednesday, September 23 at 12pm ET
Bring me your actual relationship. The text you don't know how to answer. The boundary you're struggling with. The conversation that keeps going wrong. I'll help you see what can be difficult to see when you're standing right in the middle of it.
Can't attend live? You're still included.
Every live coaching session is recorded and added to your library the same day. You can also submit your question ahead of time so I can answer it on the call for you.
Mapping Your Relationship Story - Monday, September 28 at 10:30am ET
For the first time, see a mother-daughter relationship as a whole story rather than a collection of painful moments. I'll map one relationship live across generations, transitions, roles and recurring patterns so you can watch the things that are almost impossible to see from inside a relationship become visible.
Live Coaching Session 2 - Thursday, October 1 at 12pm ET
Bring what has come up across the ten days. Get my eyes on your specific situation and your clearest next step forward.
*New Bonus Lesson* - Navigating the Hard Conversation
Because understanding the pattern and knowing what to do when you're actually standing inside the moment are two different things.
Practical, specific guidance for the moments where you have three seconds to respond and everything feels like it's on the line.
$500 Savings
Regular Price: $997 USD
She doesn't need to enroll, agree to work on the relationship or even be in contact with you right now.
You begin with the part of the relationship you actually have the power to change: how you show up inside it.
How you listen.
How you respond.
How you meet what she's asking for.
How you handle the moments that bring up fear, hurt or defensiveness.
How you lead from your side of the relationship in a way that makes it safer for your daughter to be in relationship with you.
*Due to the nature of the immediate course availabilty, there are no refunds or cancellations on digital products.