Feel calm, clear and grounded - no matter what this season brings.

You can’t control how your family shows up.

But you can decide how you arrive.

The holidays bring up everything we haven’t healed - the tension, the silence, the ache of distance, the careful walking on eggshells that leaves you exhausted by the end of the day.

If you’ve ever said to yourself:

“I just want this year to feel different.”

“I’m tired of pretending everything’s fine.”

Then this is your moment.

The Home for the Holidays Challenge is a 6-week guided experience to help you lead with calm, communicate with clarity, and create peace that lasts long after the season ends.

We begin November 6 and this time, you’ll walk in grounded, not guarded.

What You'll Learn Inside:

Over six weeks, you’ll move through a powerful emotional arc designed to help you hold peace and presence, even when things get tense.

Each week builds on the next - helping you practice what real emotional leadership looks and feels like in the moments that matter most.

By the end of these six weeks, you’ll have practiced everything you need to lead your relationships and your emotions with calm confidence.

Choose the path that meets your season below.

Here’s what we’ll explore in The Home for the Holiday Challenge together:

WEEK 1 - Thursday, November 6

Preparing for the Holidays Without Losing Yourself

→ Identify your triggers, create your emotional safety plan and define what peace looks like for you this season.

WEEK 2 - Wednesday, November 12

Staying Steady in the Room

→ Learn how to regulate your body before, during and after moments of tension. Practice grounding in real time.

WEEK 3 - Wednesday, November 19

What to Say When It’s Tense

→ Practice language that opens the door, not closes it. Learn to respond without reacting.

WEEK 4 - Wednesday, December 3

Boundaries That Build, Not Break

→ Redefine boundaries as guidance and care. Learn how to say no with warmth instead of guilt.

WEEK 5 - Thursday, December 11

Repair After Rupture

→ What to do when things don’t go perfectly. Learn repair language and how to come back together after conflict.

WEEK 6 - Wednesday, December 17

Carrying Peace Forward

→ Reflect, integrate and learn how to carry your calm into the new year.

All sessions begin November 6th and run weekly through December 19th

Option 1: Full Becoming Program + Holiday Challenge (The Complete Reconnection Experience)

6 months of live coaching + lifetime access to the full curriculum
Investment: $5,000 or six payments of $895

For women ready to experience the full transformation.
Six months of high-touch coaching, emotional repair tools, and lifetime access to everything you need to rebuild the mother–daughter bond — from tension to trust.

You’ll receive:
✅ 6 months of live group coaching with Hilary
✅ Lifetime access to the full Becoming curriculum (50+ lessons, tools, and scripts)
✅ Communication Review Calls — submit texts or notes for real-time feedback
✅ Monthly Mother–Daughter Circle Calls (optional paired practice)
✅ Private community + accountability partner for ongoing support
✅ Access to all new modules and special events

✨ Bonus: The Home for the Holidays Challenge (included this season)
A 6-week guided experience (Nov–Dec) designed to help you prepare emotionally, stay grounded through family gatherings, and reconnect in ways that last.

Best for you if:
You’re ready for long-term transformation, steady coaching, and lasting repair.

Option 2: The Holiday Challenge + Lifetime Access to Becoming

6 weeks of live coaching (Nov 3-Dec 22) + lifetime access to the full curriculum
Investment: $2500 or four payments of $695

For women who want to immerse in the live holiday coaching experience and keep access to the Becoming framework for life.

You’ll receive:
✅ 7 weeks of live group coaching during the Home for the Holidays Challenge
✅ Lifetime access to all 50+ Becoming lessons, scripts, and tools
✅ Private community and guided reflection prompts for integration
✅ Access to all live events during the holiday season

Best for you if:
You want to stabilize your relationship through the holidays and carry these tools forward long after.

Option 3: The Holiday Challenge (Live Coaching + 7 Weeks of Becoming Access)

6 weeks of live coaching (Nov 3-Dec 22) + temporary access to Becoming lessons and community
Investment: $1250 or three payments of $475

For women new to this work who want a focused, powerful introduction to the Becoming process.

You’ll receive:
✅ 6 weeks of live coaching with Hilary (Nov & Dec)
✅ Full access to the Becoming course and community during your 7 weeks inside
✅ Weekly guided reflections and practical tools for emotional repair
✅ Connection and support from like-minded women inside the program

Best for you if:
You want immediate support and tools to create peace and presence this holiday season - without a long-term commitment.

Investment Notes:

Payment plans:
Monthly payment options are listed at checkout below - questions about options? Email support@hilarymae.com

30-Day Upgrade Credit:
Within 30 days of joining, you can upgrade to the full Becoming experience and apply your full payment toward the 6-month coaching program. Start small, stay safe and grow into the work at your own pace.

How It Works:

The Challenge takes place inside Becoming, my signature coaching space for mothers or daughters healing emotional patterns, rebuilding safety and reconnecting in ways that last.

You’re Not Just Joining a Holiday Challenge

You’re entering a season of healing, leadership, and connection — with the structure, support, and strategy that make transformation last.

This is your opportunity to experience the full Becoming program, no matter the pathway you choose, with no long-term commitment and discover what it feels like to lead your relationship with confidence.

That means:

- You’ll have access to all 50+ lessons inside my signature program Becoming

- Weekly coaching calls exclusive to Becoming members (you!)

- You’ll receive guided practices, scripts and reflection tools inside your private course portal.

- You’ll be part of a private community of women walking the same path - a safe, supportive place to process and grow alongside women who get it.

Each week, you’ll get:

• One live group coaching call (you can raise your hand to be coached) + Holiday Challenge call

• A reflection practice for between calls

• Ask questions and/or join discussion threads in our community to share “wins and wobbles”

When you join the Home for the Holidays Challenge, you’ll also receive 6 full weeks of access to the Becoming program — the complete mother–daughter healing experience trusted by hundreds of women around the world.

This means you won’t just learn how to stay grounded through the holidays…

you’ll have direct access to me, my coaching, and my signature frameworks to begin transforming your relationship in real time.

Here’s What’s Included

1. Six Weeks of Group Coaching Inside Becoming

Every week, you’ll be invited to join live coaching calls inside Becoming - in addition to your Holiday Challenge sessions.

You can bring your real-life situations to be coached, ask questions about conversations or texts, and receive personalized feedback and direction.

This is where emotional theory becomes lived practice.

2. Communication Review Calls

Submit your texts, emails, or notes from recent interactions for my review.

I’ll guide you in understanding what broke down, what she might be hearing, and how to re-establish emotional safety - without overexplaining or overgiving.

3. Access to the Full Becoming Curriculum

Eight transformational modules - including my Mother–Daughter Reconnection Method™, Hear Her Framework™, and Emotional Repair Pathway™ - designed to help you build trust, self-regulation, and communication that actually works.

You can begin exploring these lessons right away and revisit them as often as you like during your six weeks.

4. Private Community Support

You’ll be welcomed into the Becoming Community - a private, sacred space where you’ll meet other women doing this work alongside you.

This is where you’ll share wins, ask for guidance, and receive my ongoing support between sessions.

5. Personalized Guidance & Optional Private Coaching

As a Becoming participant, you’ll have the opportunity to schedule optional private sessions with me if you’d like deeper support during your six weeks.

6. The Option to Continue

Within 30 days of joining, you can choose to upgrade into the full six-month Becoming experience and every dollar you’ve already invested will be credited toward your program tuition.

You don’t have to decide now - you just have to begin.

Why This Work Matters:

The holidays don’t create disconnection, they reveal what’s already unspoken.

You don’t need more effort.

You need emotional safety.

You don’t need her to change first.

You need a new way to lead.

This season, learn how to:

• Hold peace even when things feel tense

• Communicate with honesty and grace

• Set boundaries that honor both of you

• Reconnect in ways that actually last

Because the truth is:

You can’t always make her come home but you can always come home to yourself.

We Begin November 6

You can spend another season managing tension or you can learn how to lead peace.

It’s not about fixing everyone else.

It’s about becoming the woman who changes what happens next.