The high-touch, 6-month program for mothers or daughters to heal emotional patterns, rebuild safety and create the relationship you both deserve.
You’ve read the books. Tried therapy. Stayed patient.
Said the “right things.”
And somehow, you still feel like she’s pulling away.
She replies, but something’s missing. She’s polite, but not present.
You’re wondering: “How do I rebuild a relationship I thought was unbreakable?”
That’s why I created Becoming: a 6-month high-touch program where I personally guide you to shift emotional patterns and reconnect in a way that lasts.
This is not a course full of concepts.
This is the real, relational work.
In Becoming, you’ll receive the tools, scripts, emotional repair practices and deep maternal frameworks that have helped hundreds of women reconnect with their daughters — without erasing themselves in the process.
It’s grounded. It’s sacred. It’s doable.
And you’ll have me in your corner the entire way — coaching you, helping you integrate, and holding you steady when things feel hard.
Here is everything that is included ↓
6 months of live group coaching with me — 2x calls/month to work through your specific relationship dynamics in real time.
8 transformational modules teaching my Mother–Daughter Reconnection Method & Emotional Repair Pathway™
Communication Review Call: Twice monthly you'll bring your texts, emails or notes from a recent phone call or visit and I'll give you my feedback on what broke down and what to do next!
A private, sacred community of like-minded women for continual connection and support with each other + Hilary
Mother-Daughter Circle Calls: once a month you may invite your mother/daughter to join a call where we are actively working on our relationship - learning a new approach, practicing communication or exploring the past together to soften the connection
Accountability Partners: Your built in mother-daughter repair bestie, lean on each other, meet to process the lessons or check-in on each other's progress - whatever you need!
The Library: immediate access to our course library of resources to nourish you from day one (includes Mother-Daughter Ease, Aligned, Opening Doors, Relationship Repair Roadmap, Conversation Starters + more!)
Practical tools + repair scripts to use in actual conversations
Workbook prompts and reflection exercises so the shifts stick
Access to all call replays for the duration of your program
You're not meant to figure this out on your own.
I'd love to give you my proven Mother-Daughter Reconnection Method™ and The Hear Her™ Framework that's helped 100's of women reconnect.
This is the full infrastructure I've used with private clients. The work that's changed lives and rebuilt families - now delivered at a fraction of the investment.
You get the same coaching, frameworks and guidance that 1:1 clients receive inside a warm, high-touch group community where you're deeply seen and supported.
You don't need to spend years in therapy asking "why" and never getting to "how". Or worse, being told to just let her go.
The answers are here for women who are ready to shift painful patterns - even if *she* isn't ready yet.
This Is for You If…
You’re ready to step into emotional leadership - even if your daughter isn’t ready yet.
You want to understand your own patterns and take honest, loving responsibility for your part.
You’re willing to learn new ways of listening, speaking, and relating that invite trust and connection.
You’re open to being supported - not judged - as you move through guilt, grief, or uncertainty.
You’re ready to do the inner work so you can show up differently in the relationship, regardless of how she responds.
You believe it’s not too late to heal and grow - for yourself, for your daughter, and for your legacy.
This Isn’t for You If…
Becoming is a healing space for mothers or adult daughters who are ready to lead with emotional courage.
This isn’t the right fit if:
• You’re looking for a quick fix or guaranteed outcome
• You’re unwilling to reflect on your own role in the dynamic
• You want to convince her you’re right - instead of learning how to reconnect
• You’re leading with blame, anger or resentment and aren’t open to understanding her perspective
• You’re hoping she will do the work while you stay the same
This work is tender. It asks for honesty, responsibility, and emotional leadership - even when it’s hard.
If you’re open to that… you’ll find transformation here.
Payment Plan Options below ↓
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*This is a six month program, not a month-to-month membership which means you are responsible for the full investment whether you pay in full or choose to pay over multiple payments. All sales are final.