The high-touch, 6-month program for mothers or daughters to heal emotional patterns, rebuild safety and create the relationship you both deserve.
You’re not behind.
You’re not too late.
But what you’ve been doing?
It hasn’t been working.
You’ve read the books. Tried therapy. Stayed quiet.
Said the “right things.”
And somehow, you still feel like she’s pulling away.
She replies, but something’s missing. She’s polite, but not present.
You’re wondering: “How do I rebuild a relationship I thought was unbreakable?”
That’s why I created Becoming: a 6-month high-touch program where I personally guide you to shift emotional patterns and reconnect in a way that lasts.
What Makes This Work Different
This is not a course full of concepts.
This is the real, relational work.
In Becoming, you’ll receive the tools, scripts, emotional repair practices and deep frameworks that have helped hundreds of women reconnect with their daughters - without erasing themselves in the process.
It’s grounded. It’s sacred. It’s doable.
And you’ll have me in your corner the entire way - coaching you, helping you integrate and holding you steady when things feel hard.
Here is everything that is included ↓
8 transformational modules Hilary's brand new teachings to guide you through her Mother–Daughter Reconnection Method™, Hear Her Framework™ & Emotional Repair Pathway™
6 months of live group coaching with Hilary — Twice monthly calls to work through your specific relationship dynamics in real time (anyone who has a question gets time to talk through it with Hilary)
Communication Review Calls Twice monthly you can submit your texts, emails or notes from a recent phone call or visit to get Hilary's feedback on what broke down and the next best steps to take
A private, sacred community of like-minded women for continual connection and support with each other + Hilary
Mother-Daughter Circle Calls occur once a month for to invite your mother/daughter to join the conversation with us. This is where we are actively working on our relationship - learning a new approach, putting new skills and tools into action, practicing communication or exploring the past together to soften the connection
Accountability Partners: Your built in mother-daughter repair bestie, lean on each other, meet to process the lessons or check-in on each other's progress - whatever you need!
Lifetime access to each lesson, tool + script to use in actual conversations
Workbook prompts and reflection exercises so the shifts stick
Special events and classes at Hilary Mae Co. are included - you automatically have a front row seat to all live classes during your time inside Becoming at no extra cost to you.
You're not meant to figure this out on your own.
I'd love to give you my proven Mother-Daughter Reconnection Method™ and The Hear Her™ Framework that's helped 100's of women reconnect.
This is the full infrastructure I use with private clients. The work that's changed lives and rebuilt families - now delivered at a fraction of the investment.
You get the same coaching, frameworks and guidance that 1:1 clients receive inside a warm, high-touch group community where you're deeply seen and supported.
You don't need to spend years in therapy asking "why" and never getting to "how". Or worse, being told to just let her go.
The answers are here for women who are ready to shift painful patterns - even if *she* isn't ready yet.
This Is for You If…
You’re ready to step into emotional leadership - even if your daughter isn’t ready yet.
You want to understand your own patterns and take honest, loving responsibility for your part.
You’re willing to learn new ways of listening, speaking, and relating that invite trust and connection.
You’re open to being supported - not judged - as you move through guilt, grief, or uncertainty.
You’re ready to do the inner work so you can show up differently in the relationship, regardless of how she responds.
You believe it’s not too late to heal and grow - for yourself, for your daughter, and for your legacy.
A Becoming student shares how she's reconnected with her daughter after 7 weeks of no-contact ⬇
This Isn’t for You If…
Becoming is a healing space for mothers or adult daughters who are ready to lead with emotional courage.
This isn’t the right fit if:
• You’re looking for a quick fix or guaranteed outcome
• You’re unwilling to reflect on your own role in the dynamic
• You want to convince her you’re right - instead of learning how to reconnect
• You’re leading with blame, anger or resentment and aren’t open to understanding her perspective
• You’re hoping she will do the work while you stay the same
This work is tender. It asks for honesty, responsibility and emotional leadership - even when it’s hard.
If you’re open to that… you’ll find transformation here.
TOTAL VALUE $15,000
Today's Price $5,000
or 6 Monthly Payments of $917
Just fill out your info below to begin your Becoming journey right on the next page! ↓
*This is a six month program, not a month-to-month membership which means you are responsible for the full investment whether you pay in full or choose to pay over multiple payments. All sales are final.